The question was
popped, and the answer is “YES!” Now it’s time to start planning for the big
day. You are looking at dresses, picking colors, food, music, but don’t forget
the most important thing you can’t skip over: The venue! When choosing a
wedding venue here are a few things to contemplate:
Number of Guests
The first part of how to pick a wedding venue
is pretty easy. Just filter out all the wedding venues that don’t have enough
room for the number of guests you’re inviting. You can use your invitation
list, or this useful equation to estimate how many people will attend. (After all, you’re probably
going to have some obligation invites sent out to people who won’t or can’t
come but who you need to invite anyway as a matter of courtesy or politics.)
The second part of obtaining wedding venue information requires
determining if any of the people on the invite list have any mobility issues.
Elderly family members who can’t walk long distances, for example, or those
with disabilities who need wheelchair access need to be accommodated.
Location vs. Effort
wants a beautiful wedding location. But you really need to think about what
that means in terms of effort for you and your guests:
- Will you or your guests have far to travel
or will the travel be difficult? Destination wedding ideas like Hawaii are beautiful, but they’re
also remote, require a long journey, and are expensive.
- What about the additional coordination? A
quick, inexpensive trip out to the country for a wedding can still mean a lot
of effort from you in terms of pulling it all together (even if you have a wedding planner).
- Can your caterer prepare food on premises,
or will he have to bring it already cooked?
- What about the DJ or musicians? Will they have
easy access to bring in their equipment?
- And what if you want sparklers for your amazing wedding exit. Not every venue allows them, so
you’ll need to do some research and choose your location wisely.
Religious vs. Secular
Traditional religious ceremonies
may have to be held in an approved place of worship and may have guidelines for
decorations, music, and other features. For spouses with different
religious beliefs, you may want to compromise and decide on a wedding venue in
a neutral location. For secular weddings that retain
a spiritual element, take a closer look at a natural setting, such as a beach
(be sure to research permits).
Separate Spaces for Different
When deciding on how to pick a wedding venue,
it’s important to make sure that it has separate spaces for all the things you
want to do. That includes the ceremony, eating, dancing, music, and maybe even
a display area for that huge wedding cake with heart shaped sparklers you've been eyeing.
Each space should be big enough to handle your
guests and organized in such a way as to preserve the flow of your party. So,
watch out for oddly shaped rooms and obstructions.
Power, Lighting, and Sound
Nothing says “oops” quite like a
wedding ceremony in a venue that doesn’t have enough power outlets, where the
lights aren’t bright enough, and where the people in the back can’t hear. When
picking a wedding venue, make sure there’s ample power, lighting, and sound.
You may need to augment the venue’s capabilities if not.
Parking for a big event —any big
event — is a drag. But when people are dressed to the nines for your wedding, poorly
planned parking is a grade-A hassle. Make sure your guests don’t show up with a
frown from waiting in line to park or parking blocks away from your venue and having
to double-time it just to make your vows. Make sure parking is solid and hire a
small army of valets if you need to.
Nobody wants wedding crashers or paparazzi
at their wedding. Or people off the street who stumble into your ceremony after
a few cocktails and ask where the bartender is. Make sure your venue has
security if you need it. It may seem uptight or unnecessary until you need it.
Do you have any additional
considerations you’d like to share when it comes to choosing wedding venues?
Give us the low down on your wedding venue ideas in the comments.